There is another dynamic in my relationship as well where I am a submissive and am locked in chastity. When I get pegged, it's the exact same feelings you'd have during PIV sex, except I'm the one receiving. The shift in trust and submissiveness, and to be able to open that aspect of yourself to your partner is an extremely liberating feeling. Emotionally, it is a whole new type of power dynamic that we both love. It's a feeling most guys don't understand, because it's not the typical form of sex. Man A: Physically, it feels incredible to be filled like that. I was curious and I wanted to at least try it. Man C: I first heard about pegging when I was 19 via a BDSM-themed Reddit post.
Suction cup dildos are probably the best sex invention ever, but they left me wanting a real person behind it, which led to pegging. I started with butt plugs and slowly graduated to bigger ones, then vibrators, then dildos. Once I discovered how good I could feel through anal play, it was inevitable. Man B: Masturbation play led to me being curious about anal play around age 18. I was around 18 years old and had come across a pegging video, and after a few months, I decided to try and penetrate myself. How and when did you first get into pegging? Man C: I currently have sex every two to three weeks. Man A: Committed to my girlfriend of three years. What is your current relationship status? In this week's Sex Talk Realness, spoke with three men about what it's like to love being pegged by women and our culture's assumption of what that means about them.
Is it because people mistakenly assume that straight guys wouldn't be into being penetrated by their partner wearing a strap-on? Or perhaps because it's still relatively new to many people's menu of sex acts? Who knows. Despite pegging's recent surge in pop culture, in part thanks to Broad City, the act is still relatively taboo.